Red Velvet’s Joy recently opened up about a comment she often hears that she doesn’t appreciate.
During her guest appearance on ‘Animal Farm,’ Joy sparked a discussion about the unwelcome remarks often heard at family gatherings, especially during Lunar New Year celebrations.
The conversation covered the challenges of holiday gatherings in Korea, from the financial burden of traditional customs and gift-giving to the unwelcome comments from relatives.
Joy expressed her annoyance at these comments, which she sees as criticism disguised as compliments. “Family members often turn simple updates into lectures and scoldings,” she said.
Joy highlighted one comment she particularly dislikes: comments about her weight. “People often say that I’d look prettier if I lost weight,” she shared. In response to such comments, Joy firmly stated, “Please, I can manage my own weight.”
She criticized these so-called ‘well-meaning comments,’ especially when they end with the condescending phrase, “It’s all for your own good.”
Joy’s honest comments highlighted the insensitivity hidden in seemingly harmless remarks, prompting a reflection on the impact of words, even when they’re supposedly out of concern.
Netizens’ comments included:
“She’s right.”
“Can’t believe people are criticizing Joy.”
“Good for her. She’s not even overweight.”
“Even if she was overweight, that’s between her and her doctor. Insults from random people aren’t helpful.”
“She’s a role model ?”
“She looks beautiful and healthy, that’s what’s important!”
“People who suggest weight loss to skinny people are a new kind of monster, especially when it comes from family members who are much heavier.”
“Family members are often the first haters. ?”
“She’s 27 now and entering her 30s, staying ‘underweight’ like in her idol days isn’t possible, safe, or convenient.”
“Some people think she’d look prettier if she lost weight.”
“She’ll always be exceptionally beautiful to me.”
What are your thoughts?
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